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From the Publisher’s Desk
Think Beyond Yourself
by Dr. Dev Anuroop Brar, MD
While working my way through post-graduate studies as a server in both casual and formal dining restaurants, I had an opportunity to observe various natures of Americans. The restaurants differed in several ways, but there was one common denominator—the importance they placed on the customer. Though the clientele in each restaurant was very different, their expectations were very much alike. Through this experience of being a waiter, I learned that Americans place a lot of importance on customer service, response, and expectations.
One experience that I recall was in the early nineties, during the lunch hour. The manager was complaining about the lack of diners—if you remember—this was a time when recession was the buzzword. The manager did note, however, that the diners who were coming in—though small in number—were more cordial and less demanding.
While serving lunches, I waited on a customer who appeared to be in her mid-sixties. During a casual conversation, she made a statement about how depressing it was to see people sad and losing jobs, but she went on to say that, she knew it was only temporary and this would pass. It brought to my mind a favorite saying, “This too shall pass.” She also said something else that day that has stuck with me, “Son, think before you vote. Think beyond yourself.”
This meeting took place nearly sixteen years ago, and I did not think much about it except that she was a very sweet person who had a lot of faith in our government. Now her statement makes good sense because I do not believe people think before they vote. I used to be that way myself.
Recessions and such are not the fault of the politicians, but of the people who elect them. “Think beyond yourself before you vote,” may not have been her exact words, but the impact that they have—makes her a great American, in my opinion. The fact that she had faith in the system, but realized her duties made her a Great American.
Another acquaintance, which I made during my serving days, was a delightful couple whom I encountered in the “fine dining” establishment. They told me that it was their ritual to dine in that particular restaurant every year on their anniversary. He was a pastor and she was a homemaker. He has since given up the ministry and now serves as personnel director for a prominent auto dealership. During our many conversations, we exchanged phone numbers and have remained friends ever since. That was sixteen years ago and we, our families, and children are close friends.
While my newfound friend was still pasturing a local church, and while our country was still in a recession and experiencing tough times, I had the opportunity to attend one of his sermons. What I realized while listening to him preach was—in total innocence he led the congregation to vote for a certain political party. I trust and love this friend, but the way he was using the pulpit to lead the people on a political path, surprised me. His words also brought to mind the little lady who said to me, “Son, think beyond yourself before you vote.” She was not a priest or a pastor leading large groups of people, but her words were filled with more wisdom, truth, and patriotism than those of many leaders.
I still love my pastor friend, despite his political views. But I will always recall the words of the little lady…and I hope you too…will THINK BEYOND YOURSELF BEFORE YOU VOTE.
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